Building A Following

Q: George, when I was told I would write three books - you know I laughed my head off. I am not a writer at all, have a terrible education and do not like people to know about me. Getting a following is not something I want. Can I just write the books under an alias? A: Is that what you want? Q: Yeah. A: Then that is your choice if that is the true reason you do not want your name on it. Q: Look- this past week has shown me how words can really hurt someone. It can discourage one, make them cry or angry. I'm not sure I am the one for this task. I fail too much in what I know to be truth. I get hurt, angry, have trouble forgiving, even hate. I am the least person to write books about the Source of all things. Someone more spiritual than I needs this task. A: Luv, if one thinks they are spiritual - they probably aren't. All Souls fail in the areas you mentioned. That is the human way here. But, who and what you are is a different matter. No Soul is more or less spiritual than another. You can't be greater than yourself. Q: Yeah, but I worry about people thinking I am something I am not. I fail miserably at times in loving. How can I write about love - if I can't achieve it? A: You are love - you were created by love. You can not be separate from love. Now - you can over ride it with your Ego if you so choose. That's where the Soul screws up and usually says things best left unsaid. Sometimes it is best to just let be. Q: Someone acted like my husband was full of his ego in his writing. This hurt me. I know where Bob was 5 years ago and where he is now. It is miles and miles different. He receives the same things I do, but just in a different way. But he writes more eloquent than I do and it sounds different. I am very protective of him I guess. A: Yes, you are - but that is how it should be in a relationship. Your relationship with Bob should be a type and shadow of your relationship with others. Do you say everything you think to him? No, you don't. Why? Because you care about his feelings. That is the way all should think before they put their mouth in gear......Lol Q: But we don't, George - we just go ahead and blab..... Why? Why do we self -destruct ourselves? Ruin relationships? Hurt Souls? Why are we so bent on hurting our relationships? I didn't have to hurt that kid. I could have just kept deleting the emails. Why did I do that? It really hurts me. I feel so unloving. How can I truly learn to love as Source loves? A: Source is pure love. He creates love. He radiates love. None can love as Source does , but as we grow in spirit our love grows and expands into a greater love. It continues as long as one seeks it. Q: I long to love unconditionally. But my Ego says -"Yeah and you will get the shit kicked out of you too." Then I fear and wall up. How do I overcome that? A: Its all a matter of choosing to over ride your Ego and what it is saying. It isn't easy to do - its strong and very determined to get its own way. But it can be done if you choose it with your whole heart. Q: Help me learn to do that, George. A: Choose it, Luv.

Words

Q: I am slowly discovering that our words can do a lot of damage even though we mean well. I have become very upset over several things lately that have had to do with words said. I feel these people were being open and honest but it bothered me. Why do we say things George - that are totally unnecessary. Words left out of a conversation that might spark a hurt feeling, an email with their truth in it or even letters. Why do we have such a need to say things here? A: The Ego Luv. It demands it. Many times in your path things said would have been better left unsaid. Although many souls mean well - many things are best not given. Each Soul is walking a path and many things can come in their path that are very difficult on them. Sometimes words even said in truth can devastate one. Q: I know I said something myself that hurt a young man. Why didn't I just go ahead and delete all those emails instead of asking him to remove his video. It would not have hurt me. But, unfortunately I said it and hurt him. Now I regret it and hurt. A: So many times Souls do just that sort of thing. They want to be honest or open about how they feel but what they end up doing is hurting that soul. Some can take it - some are so lacking in self confidence - they can't. It is better to not say anything. Q: There is a scripture I use to quote to myself a lot: There is no sin in words but the wise man refraineth from them. Why can't we just do that? Why the compulsion to always open our mouth? Sometimes we really hurt people. A: Yes, but that is the way of the Ego, Luv. It always wants its way and thinks it knows best. When you think you should say something, stop , think on it a while, then if your spirit agrees - say it. Not everything one thinks is good to say to a soul. Silence is very golden sometimes. It does more to show love than anything else. Q: These words said made me uncomfortable. I worry about what was said now. A: Things will be okay. Do not fret.

Down A Bit

Q: My being struggles within itself today, George. I wonder why I was to write these things and yet it remains to be just words on a page. My being here struggles with its emotions, its desires and wants. My existence is in an uproar and it doesn't sit well with my Ego and its emotions. I don't understand the path I have taken. Why things come and go as they do. I fight my emotions and wonder if it will ever ease - this war within me. Is it to never ease? A: Luv, We see your turmoil and understand. This path can be hard. It can be discouraging. Yet, in its timing all things will be as you dream. Your Ego says when. Your Soul says when your spirit is ready. Yes, this produces a war within for any soul. That is the journey of this path. To learn to find peace in the midst of a storm. We see how tired you are and how sad you are. This too, is okay - it is part of each soul's journey here. If everything was rosey - why would you even bother to stay. Life is like a roller coaster. It will have highs and lows. It will swing drastically to one side or the other, but eventually it will stop. The soul will rest. Your journey has indeed been rough. But we can truthfully say it will soon change and become easier. You are due some TLC as you call it. Love can be harsh in its teaching of one. It is a purifier. It cleanses the Soul and Ego and makes them balance into one. That can often be harsh to handle. The trials you have been treading through are changing and molding you into the spiritual being you needed. It is good. Yes, we realize it has been very trying for you but oh so necessary. The path you will soon trod will be one of great direction. It is not for the faint of heart. It will be one hard to bear at times. So you needed to toughen up a bit. There are things to come you will need to be free from all fears. There are some still left in you from the teachings of childhood. They need to be opened and dealt with. The timing for all of the books to be will be sooner than you realize. You will not have to dwell as you are for very much longer. Be patient child. You want everything now. Q: Come on George, one minute you tell me to live in the now and now you are telling me to wait. Make up your mind....Lol A: I am laughing out loud. Yes at times it may appear to you to be confusing, but what I say is this. Every lesson you chose was preconceived for you by your soul and ego before you came. How you learn those lessons is up to your emotions here. But learn them you will. Do not feel as if you are wasting your time writing this. It all has its own time to be brought forth. Q: Why tell me things that don't come to pass? A: All things come to pass - but maybe not in the way your mind has seen it to be. Q: What does that mean? A: If we tell you something - your mind starts to dwell on it and then pictures its way to the happening. It may or not be the true way of that path. But what we say will come to pass in its own way and time. Q: Some have not. A: Some came but in a different way than you thought it would be. Q: Some I was told could only come in the way I saw. A: Timing Luv- timing. It will be as you saw - but when the timing is right. Q: Who chooses - "THE TIMING?" A: Each Soul. Q: I still don't see why tell me anything unless it is to come to pass within a decent time frame. A: Luv, there you go again with time frames. We do not deal in time frames as you do here. We see a whole path as a whole road - with no lines drawn through. You see with lines drawn - each step in a path. We do not. It is a path unobstructed and bathed in love. You see a path reeked with ups and downs, gaps, lines and filled with emotions. We see love - the giver and purifier - the life to all. Q: When do I get to the place I see as you do? A: When the timing is right and you choose too.

Love's Quest

Q: Okay - so we are here to find out what love means. But why do we have to always experience constant drama in our life path? Why no - as I like to say - TLC time? A; There is much TLC time as you call it - you probably don't see it as such. Q: By the way I think you meant that - probably not. What I think as TLC (Tender loving care) time is unfortunately not what you are talking of. Right? A: Love is always tender - no matter in which way it is dealt out on your path. What you think as horrible is probably one of your greatest times of learning and teaching you ---- as to the greater joys of love. Q: Easy - my friend - for you to say. I am the one experiencing this path at this present time. A: Ah - again - you miss the point - thinking in your duality mode again. There is no us - there is only one. One entity that truly exists. There is no separation. There is no one else. There is only you. All things that seem to you to exist here is an illusion to your ego mind to create this pathway of learning. What you feel as real to your Ego is real - but in reality it does not truly exist. There is no here. It is all here. Your earthly eyes do not see the real world. It sees only what your Ego has chosen to see and create. Q: Okay a part of me, my Soul, understands what you are saying but a part of me, my Ego - feels this world as real. My loves, my disappointments, my hopes, my dreams, my goals, my friends and the world around me feel very real to me. My eyes see these things as existing. So, as far as I feel and see - this is real. My soul on the other hand understands what you are saying as much as it is capable of. I know there is so much more I do not understand, George. I know that in time as my eyes open more to spirit I will understand more and more of what you say. But, as of now - I sometimes struggle with the human being part of me. A: Yes, that is the way it was to be. How can any experience seem real if one does not see, feel and think it is real? It had to be so. Only in the true free will reaction can the emotion truly be felt and learned. It is so wonderful. The learning experiences are a golden opportunity to experience love at its best. Q: I'd have to truthfully (at this time) say sometimes. Sometimes it is as my grandchild said, "It's too hard." A: Yes, but that is when love is at its greatest energy within you. It is teaching, healing and expanding you. Q: Could I have a little TLC once in a while to prop my love up? Lol A: You get it in every breath you take.

Wondering

Q; George, I have been wondering why there is so much division on this dimension. Is it as much on other dimensions? A: Many dimensions suffer with division but none as deeply as this earthly dimension. Remember the energy here is much slower than on any other dimension. This world was created to learn. Every experience gone through is to teach each soul its way to love - to who and what it is. Some dimensions are on a higher level and their perception of who and what they are is on a higher energy level. That is not to say they are more spiritual than souls on this dimension. In fact many souls here are even older than those on higher energy dimensions. The reason is some of the lessons to be experienced here are very difficult indeed. It is at times almost brutal. But - that soul will learn more about love - in that trial. Each soul endeavors to grow in its knowing of what love truly means within. It is often not an easy learning and can be quite devastating at times. But the end result is amazing to the soul and ego as they re balance into their oneness. Q: I don't understand why we want to come here to suffer. My Ego mind just can not grasp the reasoning as rational. A: Your Ego - while here - separate from its counterpart - the soul - will never be able to rationalize the reasoning. That is why the soul merges with the ego at times to glimpse into why the path. This urges the ego onward into the path to learn the lesson of love. Q: So - are you saying every thing we go through here has to do with learning what love means? A: Yes - all roads lead to love - the knowing of Source. The life of all things. The giver of Love. The existence of love. Q: So, souls on other dimensions are learning too? A: Yes, but in different ways. It is so amazing.....The whole procedure of love is so enlightening to each soul. You here only glimpse bits and pieces of what love really means. We that have crossed only see it to a certain extant. We continue to learn too. That is the beauty of love - no beginning - no end. It just was, is and will be. It is all things to all that exists.

Jim Carey

Q: I listened to a U-Tube video of Jim Carey talking about an epiphany he received. He stated the feeling of awareness comes and goes. We have discussed this on many occasions, George. You said the reason for that swinging back and forth is because it was meant to be here. The Soul you said is a much higher energy and can not remain in this earthly body for long periods of time because the higher energy would destroy the body's slower energy. Does it ever become longer periods of time of the balancing of the two?

 A: Yes, as one raises their energy level - there will be more and more of the balancing of the two. But if one does choose to remain here it will indeed come and go for the protection of the earthly body. With each raising of the energy - the earthly body will be able to handle longer moments of the higher energy of the Soul. You have experienced this a great deal.

 Q: If that is the truth - then why do I still react out of my Ego so much?

 A: Because you dwell in an earthly form ruled by the Ego and its emotions.

 Q: Does that ever get better here?

 A: Yes, as each Soul gives way to their Soul and balances the two (Soul & Ego) - they are given deeper glimpses of who and what they are. This knowledge will draw the Soul into seeking ways to encounter its counterpart the Ego. As the Soul merges with its other half the Ego - they both begin to desire this oneness path of dwelling as one. Each will endeavor to find the other on its journey.

 Q: So - what you are saying is it is a daily walk of learning?

 A: More like minute to minute learning, Luv.

Offense

Q: George, I recently ask a young sensitive man to remove a video he tagged on my facebook page. I was constantly having to remove emails from people commenting on his video. I am a lover of music, I sing and play piano, so it is not that, but the constant hassle of removing and deleting emails. I offended him and he left my Facebook site. He was constantly arguing with me on my thoughts. My question is this - did I offend him from my Ego? I really care about the young man and it seems I have again hurt him. I feel he has been hurt a lot and is bitter about love. Much pain in him. I hurt now - in my heart - because I failed to allow him love and patience. A: Luv, the young man has indeed much hurt in regard to love. But he chooses to remain bitter inside and chose not to hear. He should have ask to tag your site first. Part of your reaction was out of your Ego, part -you are physically ill -therefore less patient -and part- he needs to be more respectful to others. But that is not the answer here. All people find they try to justify their thinking. They receive light and without even realizing it - box it in. You have received much light but at times box that light in. We have discussed this on numerous occasions. Q: Yes, I am aware of this fact. But my heart hurts because I hurt him again. He will never understand true love - if people - me included keep disappointing him. A: Luv, if a soul is truly seeking love - they will find it. It is within. They can not run away from it or free themselves from it. It is them. If a soul chooses to take offense - it is their choice. He is young and will learn not everyone is out to hurt him. Some do care - but all have a right to respect. Love is hard to learn. It comes as one desires to lay down the thoughts of the Ego and allow the other to be put in front - sort of to speak. There was wrong reaction from each of you - as to the action of love. You felt he was infringing upon your site and he was networking on yours. Love is simply allowing freedom of both. Q: So why did I not show him the action of pure love - why did I fail so miserably? Where is all the teachings you have given me? A: Within you. You did not fail - nor did he. It was a learning experience for both of you. No one has all the answers to love. No one has acheived pure love here. Even we - that have crossed over - still experience things to bring us to a greater enlightenment of what love really is. Only Source knows the whole truth of love. He dwells within you and as you seek you find more and more bits and pieces of the puzzle of love. Do not beat yourself up over this. It is a learning process for all. Q: But I am angry at myself for offending this hurt soul. A: Then he also will have those feelings for you are one - connected in that love. Q: I don't think he has love for me at this time - more like anger and bitterness. That hurts me that I have hurt him. A: He will live to fight another day and he will learn to be more respectful - hopefully of anothers. Q: That's not the point, George. The point is I am older, I have been given more enlightenment - yet I acted out of Ego. It has greatly disappointed me. A: Join the band wagon child. All have come short of the glory of love.