Frustration

 Q:  I am frustrated at this present time. Not because I am not getting what I want. But the fact that everyone is struggling to hear the still small voice within because of all the things everyone is going through. There is so much fear in everyone of the what ifs a head. I realize this dimension is a learning center, and that our Ego is veiled from its other half the Soul, but man this is crazy now. Our USA is divided by half of the people trying to do what is right and half of them allowing things that at one time they would not. People nearly run you off the road. They don't seem to care about anyone. It is like kindness, respect and love is going away. Why?

A:  Man has become totally self centered. They have ignored that still small voice which is their Soul calling out to them. Despite all that is going on, each Soul will eventually realize what direction they have gone and will turn around to find that voice.

Q:  I'm not so sure of that Samson. I don't see much caring happening these days. Why is it so hard for us to see the good these days, to trust that others really care?

A:  Each must reach within themselves to find the peace that dwells within. The Creator is a part of every Soul. There is no separation between love and your Creator. The Creator within each Soul is their peace. That peace will help one find again that place of caring and love for others. Of course each Soul must reach for that within them. Each Soul has Free Will.

Q:  I sure hope you speak true words of encouragement.  This madness is very frustrating.

A:  Love is powerful child and it always wins. Trust in that.

Concern

January 3, 2026

Q:  It sure seems time has moved so fast. Is it moving faster?

A:  Time for this dimension is the same as always. You stay so busy in your life path that days start to run together.

Q:  I guess I am very concerned about what is taking place in this Country. So much hate and division. A lot of people are stating this world may end, or horrible things will start to happen. Is this all true? Are we heading for horrible times even worse than we already are experiencing?

A:  Things are indeed in chaos. There is much division and anger happening child, but there are many that are awakening to truth. This is good. 

Q:  If more and more people start to seek truth will it ease this path?

A:  Every trial a Soul faces depends on whether they stay in peace or let the trial take them into suffering. Remember each Soul has free will. Man's heart's condition depends on their free will. It is up to each Soul to accept the experience or fight against it. If one trusts love through the experience one stays peaceful. If one fights against the experience they will struggle within and feel saddened.  Just trust in the Creator's love for each Soul. Trust the experience will teach you and guide you. 

Unconditional Love Question

 Q:  My husband keeps stating we were never born. I do not understand that. I thought we were created to be here to learn, that we are one with our Creator, the same energy. Everyone has a different idea what truth is. I am getting confused.

A:  Every Soul is from the same energy-Source.  The Source is called by many names which has no matter. Each Soul is created from the Source of all things. Some call that energy source: God, Allah, Budda, the Concsiousness, the light, and so and so forth. It makes no difference. All energy is from the only Eternal Source. It gathers all within its light. Yes, you are all created to learn who and what you are. You were told all were given free will. Free will is the Eternal Love given from the Eternal Source.

Q: Are we just as the Eternal Source?  I was told that long ago. Do we have male/female, logic/emotions, good/bad characteristics. yen/yang, and so and so forth, just as I was told the Creator is?

A:  The consciousness of all energy is all things. Every Soul possesses both light and darkness. Because each Soul was given free will each Soul chooses its own life path. It can be a path of light or a path of darkness.

Q: If one chooses the dark path does that make them bad?

A: You third dimensional world is because the Ego rules here in physical matter. The Soul simply realizes who and what it is. This duality was created for the learning of each Soul's emotions. thus the soul learns each life lesson from the vantage point of physical matter - duality. It is simply learning life lessons, child.

Q:  Samson, why is our path of learning so hard then? I could use some TLC.

A:  Each Soul is learning just as all others are learning. Each direction chosen by the Soul here allows the Soul to see beyond the physical matter into the light of Eternal Love. Each lesson teaches love in many differnece ways.

Q:  So, why was I promised things that have never come?

A:  Maybe, your Ego sees life differnetly than it is.  Peace and happiness is a choice for each Soul to grasp in their own way. For to learn is simply walking through one's life path, learning as one walks.

Silence

Q:  I have read in many different writers where they state silence is the only way to truth. One can't learn truth through any concept, thought or belief. Is this true?

A:  Silence is truth for there is no ritual, belief or even your thought of truth that is correct. Truth is simply unconditional love in it's purest form.

Q: I have read where all there is conciousness. Please explain this to me.

A:  Conciousness simply is all there is. The Source of conciousness is our Creater and you. For you and truth are one and the same. 

Q:  How can I be truth when I understand so little?

A: All there is within you. It dwells in all energy. It is the eternal conciousness of all enegy, truth which is unconditional love in it's purest form.

Q: I have read there is only God's Will. That we have no will and everything is preordained. Yet, you have told me unconditional love is actually our free will. I'm getting confused. 

A: Your will is also our Creator's will. You are one and the same. There is no difference. You are here to seek truth though the emotions of the Ego for it is a challenge for all to learn truth.

Q: But, many say we are to kill our Ego - that it isn't to rule us. Yet, you have taught me we are our Creator manifesting here to experience life paths and we are both our Soul and our Ego. So?

A: Every truth is learned at one's ability to comprehend and accept it.  All things are one. The same energy that gives you your life here is the same energy that is within you. it is all one and the same. There was, is and never will be any separation of energy. Thus there can be no Heaven or Hell. It is simply a conciousness of energy divine by unconditional love.  All will return to that one energy.

Q:  I read truth is not a concept. That our beliefs are simply a concept we have created - not truth. So, what am I writing all of this for?  I have been writing since 2004.

A:  Your writings are simply a way to understand truth. They will guide many to seek the truth of who and what they really are.

Q:  What are we then?

A:  A conciousness of unconditional love, which is here to learn who and what we are.

Q: If I am suppose to learn then why do I stuggle so? I seem to struggle with my Ego over which part of me (Soul or Ego) is to rule. How can anyone truly learn in this constant struggling?

A: Each Soul here on their life path will struggle. That is the purpose of one's journey. The conciousness desires to understand all emotions through many different views and feelings. Each Soul was granted free will to learn in their own way. This is life at its fullest.

Q:  Appears to me to be more like torture.

A: Remember our words, "The longer a Soul has traveled this dimension the harder the life path will be." Only the older Souls dwell in the very hard trials of this life path, child.  Need I say more to you on this matter.  One simply needs to experience all things.  

 

EMOTIONS AGAIN

Q:  If we are all one energy does my emotions really affect everyone?

A:  The whole consciousness is changed with each emotion.

Q;  How can that be?

A:  Remember the vision shown to you about all being attached to the center of all energy?

Q:  Yes, but if everyone's energy affected every Soul it would be a chaotic mess all the time!

A:  All energy is connected to the Center of Source. When the energy of each Soul flows back to the center of all energy it is changed into unconditional love, where lies no judgement.

Q:  If that is so why so much evil happening now?

A:  Because even though love flows forth from all energy mankind is still ruled by their ,"Free Will."  Which part of each Soul, whether their Soul or their Ego," rules is what becomes their reality. Remember each Soul is free to choose how they react to the, "flow of thought," You need to see just how wonderful FREE WILL really is.

Happiness

 Q:  What does it mean to be happy?  Is it a possibility?

A:  Happiness is being in a peaceful mind. To be at peace is to allow your Soul and Ego to balance. Only when they are in perfect balance can happiness be experienced.  In that balance is rest. Rest produces happiness. 

Q:  How do we balance our self?  How can the Soul and Ego truly balance while on this 3rd dimension? 

A:  When you give up control of this path and walk in trust. One senses rest within. That peace one walks in begins to set the Ego mind free from its desire to be in control. It begins to search for its other half, the Soul. The veil is rent from the hidden vision and knowledge of the Soul. One begins to finish their journey in a peaceful state of mind. Love becomes free and happiness, true happiness is obtained. I

Q: I guess the how to is my next question. Lol

A:  Simply going within to who and what you are - unconditional love. Resting in the trust of that love.

What Is Spirituality?

• Q:  What is being Spiritual?

A:  Being Spiritual child isn't as your Ego will tell you. It is what the Soul knows. Religion has bound many to think wrongly what our Creator desires for us and what being Spiritual means. Spirituality is being at peace within. It's knowing who and what you are. One can't become spiritual through any avenue other than going within. There is no teacher, book or any other avenue that states they can teach you that will make you Spiritual child.  It is simply to love without judgement and not to rely on preconceived ideas as to how one must be.

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Q:  The more we try to do that the more we fail. So, how do we do that?

A:  Trust what is one within you. Don't seek any where but within. All energy resides within you. One doesn't become Spiritual or more Spiritual. One simply learns to rest in piece within and awaken to who you truly are. Fret not. Do not worry. Know that one doesn't become Spiritual.  One simply is Spiritual.
Don't worry about past mistakes. Leave guilt behind and allow the everlasting peace within you to reign.

Trying To Understand

Q:  Samson, I am trying to understand the things you have shared with me. At times I realize the truth and it lights me up inside. Sometimes it may as well be Greek.  I do so want to go forth with my writings, but I am struggling with all of the chaos in my life path.  Why do we have to go on and on with our struggles?  Isn't it enough sometimes?

A:  Child, I see your difficulties as stepping stones in your path of learning. You see them as a victim.  No one is in a perfect state of life. All are learning one way or another.   Do not be sad child.  You have written these things from you heart as you have learned them. This knowledge will pass to others. You need to trust in this. 

Q:  Samson, all I ask if for my desires to come.

A:  What you desire is not what you came here to experience.  Are you sure it would fair you well, child?

Q:  Right now I feel as if a truck sits on my chest.  The things surrounding me are often hard to feel positive in.  I watch those I love struggle, cry and feel a lone.  I can't seem to get over my grief over my friends passing.  I miss them so much. 

A:  We understand child. It is a great loss for you and your spouse.  But, fear not this grief too shall pass as you discover truth more deeply within you.

Q:  It seems to me all I write about now is my sadness.  How can that aid anyone?

A:  Not all Souls in this dimension are on an easy path. Sometimes they hurt. Sometimes they just need to hear someone understand their pain.  It isn't bad to struggle child. It teaches you as well as being on the mountain top does, sometimes even better.  Every Soul is apart of the whole. They are one with all things. There is no separation between them and the Creator.  You in your sadness are still a spiritual being full of light.  Do not be so hard on yourself, child.

Q:  Why do I spend time writings these things to only have them sit in boxes, Samson.  It makes me wonder if this is all for only me.

A:  Child, you do not understand the true purpose of these writings, yet. It is okay. The truth of your writings will be reveal to you as well as others in time.  Trust in this , child.

Today

Q:  I realize our thoughts come the Creation (Universe) and if we allow them to take hold of our Ego mind and not pass through it will create in us an emotion. That emotion whatever it is will bring forth a reaction in us. That reaction will then create our reality here on this dimension.  So, How do we allow the thoughts to pass through and not take thought within us?

A:  Child, all thoughts will bring forth a reaction within one. One has to learn to not let them stay but view the thought as only a thought without a body of thought to latch hold.  It takes time as one's Ego tends to like to react.  It is learning as is your Soul.  It isn't a bad thing if you allow thought to create a space in your Ego mind. One is learning who and what they are through every emotion faced and lived.  Do not fret little one.

Q:  Yes, but my reactions are often hard to go through.

A: AAH, child that is why the thought comes - to teach you the realization of what thoughts are and how they can control one.  As one grows within and without in the knowledge of who they truly are thoughts seem to lessen in grasping hold of one.  You are learning child and that is good.

Q:  I really miss my friends. It is so lonely without them.

A:  I know child, but it was their wish to leave.

Q:  Why? Why did they want to leave?

A: They had learned their lessons here. Just as you will one day.

Q:  I don't feel as if I have learned anything here Samson.

A:  Child you have learned a great deal and the things you have learned will truly aid others.

Q:  How?  No one sees the things you share with me.

A:  In time child, in time.

Sad Times

Q:  It is such a sad time in our path. We lost our friend, Betty last October and now have lost her husband (friends of 46 years). His funeral is Friday. I realize they have only passed over to their true self, but loosing their physical form is hard. I also am aware that we need to capture each moment in the present and learn from it. It is very hard to remain in the present. We tend to look back or worry over the future. Why is it so hard for us?

A:  The Ego is a very strong part of you - which by the way the one part of you that controls this path - as we have stated many times. But, a soul is more apt to learn their pathway if it isn't easy. Remember when I stated that all thoughts come from the Creation, those thoughts create an emotion within every soul, the thought then creates an emotion and that emotion then creates one's reality.  Thoughts come and go constantly child,.It's how you react to them that makes or breaks a soul. One can look at each emotion as simply a way to learn or one can let that thought and emotion create havoc in one's path.  Neither way is wrong for the soul. The soul will learn what it needs to - to continue it's walk here. If a soul simply stands back and looks at each thought as it comes as simply a thought - nothing more - one could avoid many times of hardship. Yet, the ego reaches out and grasps the thought - thus the path grows difficult at times. The more one holds onto a thought the greater hold that thought has on one.

Q:  Why it is so hard then to let the thoughts go?

A:  Holding onto a thought gives the soul a reason to continue its' seeking for the knowledge it desires. Every thought creates an awakening in the soul. It creates unity in the soul and ego.  This is what it means when we say the light comes from within and goes to without.

Q:  What happens when the light go without?

A:  It changes one's life path and all others, for all are of the one energy.

Why Bother?

Q:  Samson, I have been writing since November 11,2004.  I at this time am not even sure why or if I should continue to go forward. My life path at this time is so hard and I am so tired. I don't see these writings helping me or anyone else at all. Does anyone even knows my writing exist?. I continue to struggle with my Ego and my peace has left the building - as the old saying goes.
 I have lost the best friend a girl would ever have and now we are loosing her husband, who we all adore.  He is suffering terribly with cancer and really has given up to try and fight it. He is lost without his beloved wife of almost 60 years.  I know there is no true death, that we just pass onward in our life journey, but loosing the physical existence of them is hard on this path. My kids are struggling and  my brothers are in trouble financially and I can't even help them. Their health is going down, so my life is really sad.  Does it ever give me a break?  We have gone through so much in the past, I need some TLC.

A:  Child, this journey you are on is one that is often difficult for Souls. If it were easy you would not learn the lessons you came here to experience. Do not feel so down child. You will get through all of this and learn greatly how much you are loved.

Q:  I will wait and see when that love will appear.  right now I just don't feel it at all. I am tired and I am sad. I just want some peace and rest without worry.

A:  Then trust in love child!

Struggling With Loss

Q:  Today I am suffering from the loss of my friend, Betty - of 46 years.  I know in my heart she is not really dead but only changed to her true form. But, while here on this 3rd dimension, my heart and ego suffer for the fact her form is no longer here. I see her husband who has been by her side since Junior High School married almost 60 years, cry and suffer.  My heart is breaking for him and the family.  This path is often very trying on us. I know she is free and happy, but it is still hard. Why can't I see beyond my pain to what truly is?

A:  Child, no one dies, they just shift to a higher state. Their true form is an energy pattern  that is of one consciousness - our Creator. 

Q:  I have so many things with her I wish I had done different or better, and yet - there is all this stuff I seem to deal with. I wonder how she feels about her life path here? I wonder if she is loving or angry or sad?  There are so many questions I don't have answers to.

A:  At this time your long time friend is viewing her path. She is learning what each emotion was and how she dealt with it - the same as you will one day child. There are no regrets, sadness, or anger for her, only the realization this path was only for learning.

Q:  Yet, I deal with the thoughts of all my failures.  Was I there for her enough?  Was I a good friend?  Could I have done more?  There are so many things I would have done differently for and with her. She was always there for me and I am not sure I was for her. That is what hurts me the most - my failure to be a better friend to her.

A:  Child, what is in the past must stay in the past.. One here learns very well by the mistakes they make or the things they could have done better for those they love.  Do not regret but learn from this and allow spirit to guide you into all truths. do not seek the past but live in your present time frame. Do not look to the future as you will only worry. Living in the now is having peace that all is well with you.

Q:  Well Samson, not all is well with me.  I am grieving inside.  I can't seem to come to grips with my loss.  She was my only friend. She was always there for me. She let me ramble on and on and never complained. did I truly listen to her?  Did I be there for her?  These things hurt me, for I now I wasn't.  This breaks my heart.

A:  Child - live in the now.

Loosing Someone You Love

Q:  Why is it so hard to see someone you love pass away. I know they are connected to the one source and are only truly leaving to become who and what they are, but my ego here cries from the hurt. why?

A:  The human pathway on this dimension, child is very real to you. You see everything as if it is real. Yet, this pathway is only a place of learning and will pass away.

Q:  But, Samson, it appears so real to my heart.

A:  No one ever truly dies child, they only return to their true form. This form was created to pass away. Don't feel such a deep loss, you are still together and always will be.

Thank You For Your Knowledge To Help Me See Truth

Q:  I haven't written in my blog for a while. So much is going on in my life. We have moved, my boss moved so I have really been tied down to this path. The knowledge all of you have imparted to me is beginning to come to life. I am starting to see the oneness in a greater way. I by no means have reach any utopia, but I am walking towards truth with a little more understanding within. It feels so good to realize I am one with everything.

A:  Yes child, it is good. We see the growth happening within you and are glad. Love is beginning to teach you who and what you are - one with the Creator.

Q:  It sure has taken a long time for me.  I guess I was really ingrained in what I thought was truth.

A:  Many Souls are child. That is the reason for your writings.

Q: It is beyond my understanding at this point in time. My journals sit in boxes. So, stating my writings are for everyone doesn't make since right now to me, but I am not going to worry about it anymore. If they never get written that's okay. The writings have helped me to understand so much and I appreciate all of the  knowledge all of you have given to me. Thank you!

Learning Center

Q:  Seeing something is so different from actually understanding something.

A:  That is true child.

Q:  So telling me Samson, to choose or see something in truth or understanding isn't always as easy as you think it will be.  The slower energy we dwell in here impedes our understanding as well as adding to our Ego's strength here. Remember please, we are in an unbalanced state here in our energy. Just telling me something isn't always so easy for me to grasp.

A:  Quite so child, it is often hard to see things in your unbalanced state when the truth is so much a part of us in our balanced state. Being a guide is not as easy as one would imagine, even in our balanced state, we often struggle to remember to be patient sometimes, and even harder to try and think as you think here in order to be of greater service to our charges.

Q: Look, I do appreciate all of the truth all of you share with me. You have all taught me many truths and understanding is often clear to me, but sometimes my brain prevents me entering the truths in totality.  It isn't easy for me either, especially in a mind that dwells in a physical duality at times.

A:  We knew your path would not be an easy one for you, child. We brought in George as your first teacher due to the fact you had shared many life paths together which we presumed would be of greater aid to you on you earthly path. But, often your Ego has given you trouble to accept the truth and understanding of all things. We have said many times, all energy is of ONE SOURCE, child, but here on the 3rd dimension the ability to see beyond this physical matter holds you back on accepting and understanding.  This is a place simply to allow each Soul to feel and live out their emotions for true understanding of who and what they are. Emotions allow every Soul to see truth in reality, to understand each part of one's self and to allow one to see beyond just the knowing of emotions to what the emotions are and how they mold one's self. For we must blend our Ego and Soul to understand that truth. It is as George said, " Just looking at a bowl of ice cream does not allow the Soul to understand what it is, but as the Soul takes their first taste of it, discovery is brought into reality for them." Each Soul must experience every emotion to grasp life in its fullness, thus, giving the Soul the truth of all things. Sometimes the path is easy and sometimes one will struggle, but each Soul will experience life in order to see beyond their self. The one source of all things is who and what we are. To totally understand that one has to live all emotions. One have to accept the feelings of all energy.

Q:  What does that mean - accept the feelings of all energy?

A:  Emotions are energy and everything consists of energy. One learns to center their energy on the path through the experience of learning. Emotions are our teacher of life and so needed to advance each Soul in who and what they are - ONE WITH ALL THINGS! That one thing is LOVE.

Learning Purposes

Q:  You have said in the past about how every situation we go through is for a learning purpose. In that learning why do we at times feel one within and then it changes back to the feeling and thinking in duality?  My first guide that spoke, George, said it was the way of this path so we would keep learning. Why?

A:  Child, we all have come and will come to learn life lessons with our Ego controlling the process. This is the way we learn here. If we always felt one within we would not go forward in the learning process - we would simply see no purpose to go forward on this dimension. Life paths are journeys of benefit to both our Ego and our Soul. The lessons we go through bring a better knowing within each Soul. Life paths are to learn from and enjoy.

Q:  How can one enjoy a terribly trying life path?

A:  One simply learns from the process of emotional pain and suffering. How does a Soul ever understand hunger unless the Soul has experienced it?  Every situation teaches the Soul what living is all about.

Q:  Why? Why learn all this?  Don't we already know it in our true form?

A:  To extend one's knowledge of life, child. To turn a dead Soul into a living Soul aware of all it's potential, and all the experience of the passions of life.  All children love to play on a slide, do they not?

Q:  Yes, most do.

A:  At first, the child may be fearful of the slide, but at the coaching of the parent, the child takes the plunge and behold finds the experience to be heavenly. The child wants to experience the joy again and again.  This is much like every Soul here learning life and all its passions.  All knowledge learned is good child. Life isn't about the good or bad situations as you think here - its about the living of passions, learning about each other. It is about love, child. Love is passion at its best.

Love Is The Path

Q:  Love is the whole process of out life path here is that what you are saying? For what purpose?

A:  Love is the whole of all things, Child.  As a Soul discovers what love means to them on this path more and more of their energy is blended. The higher a Soul moves upward in their knowledge of love the more that Soul is able to impart what love is to others.

Q:  For what purpose? A better world?

A:  The enlightenment shared produces a stronger bond to all energy, child. The stronger the bond to the one energy the stronger one's peace will reign. That Soul can truly begin to love without judgement.  The awakening begins within the Soul and the truth within becomes a reality.  The Soul becomes free of all earthly entanglement.

Q:  For what purpose?

A:  Every Soul created in the beginning was divided. The Soul and Ego both tried to reign. That division creates havoc within. The purpose is to balance them back to discover their true self and recognize who and what they are.

Q:  Why?

A:  To be able to see beyond one's self and live in true unity with all energy. This creates a better world for all. It expands who and what you are. You discover you are but a part of the whole,  The knowledge of being one brings the greatest peace, child. What is greater then having total peace within. There is no greater, child, none greater than total peace.

Life Lessons

Q:  Does our life lessons always have to be so hard on us?

A:  Would any Soul truly learn any other way if the lessons on their path did not cause a reaction within the Soul?

Q:  I really wish there were some time out on our paths sometimes where one could take a breath and rest.

A:  Do you want to learn child?

Q:  Yes, but sometimes it gets a little overwhelming to me.

A:  It is vital each Soul learns on their pathway. That is why each Soul comes here. Just think of each lesson as a way to grow spiritually higher in your awareness of the Creation of all things.

Q:  Sometimes it seems as if some are loved more than others.

A:  Each Soul comes to walk a path of learning so they may advance in Spirit. How the Soul learns, easy or hard, is only up to them. Each Soul has accepted the lessons and what they wanted to experience in advance.

Again We Talk About Emotions

Q:  Please start the conversation Samson.

A:  Child, as a Soul walks their path on this dimension their guides prepare the journey the Soul chose to experience. They bring about the situations that bring about the emotions the Soul chose to learn.

Q:  How?

A:  It can be brought about by many things depending on the chosen emotions.  Such as, meeting an individual who would cause a response within the Soul which will bring about the emotion to experience. A movie, a child, a parent, a co-worker, a car wreck, just about any situation will produce the needed reaction in the Soul. That reaction them allows the Soul to begin the lesson. You must remember, guides are only there to aid the Soul in their chosen decisions.

Q:  What if the Soul doesn't respond to the thing the guides have produced to aid them?

A:  The guides will bring about another lesson along the path, unless the Soul wishes to forgo their chosen lesson.

Q:  So, it's all like a game here to see how much a Soul can be taught?

A:  Quite much child. But, it is lessons the Soul had chosen before they came to walk this path. It is never forced on any Soul and the Soul can change their path, for they control their pathway. It is simply a means to an end for the Soul to learn. The way to the chosen emotion is produced in the Soul's path and the Soul chooses whether to take that one or not. It is always up to them which path they will trod.

Discovering One's Self

Q:  Samson, you talk about us learning emotions here so we can realize who and what we are. How does our emotions help us with our discovery of what we are?

A: Every Soul was created unique having their own identity.  Emotions develop our Soul's identity as we journey these life paths. As each lesson is learned it creates more awareness of  the Soul's personality.  One discovers who and what they are becoming. It is much like your children borne here. Each is from the same Source (earthly Mother and Father), but, each has their own traits. How they develop as they grow up and face their life path is up to them. It is as you told one of your grand children yesterday - it is all up to the path we choose and how we react to it. Each  Soul holds the key to who and what they will be, but each choice made will develop love within that Soul, whether the path chosen is hard or easy. Love is the key to all things, child. The emotions faced and learned teach the Soul what they have become. If one's choices are selfish one eventually will become aware within that selfishness will bring division and loneliness.  To some the selfish person seems to have more in life, but in the end one sees the loving Soul actually has more.  The inner man is developed into a loving Soul and the more the Soul will see what truly matter - LOVE.
One can't see while choosing to walk is a selfish pathway that all becomes vanity and vexation to the Soul. The longer a Soul walks their life path here the more the inner man begins to see and realize what is truly good for and to them. One can't learn without the lessons of these life paths, for they teach the Soul to love without judgement.