Struggling With Loss

Q:  Today I am suffering from the loss of my friend, Betty - of 46 years.  I know in my heart she is not really dead but only changed to her true form. But, while here on this 3rd dimension, my heart and ego suffer for the fact her form is no longer here. I see her husband who has been by her side since Junior High School married almost 60 years, cry and suffer.  My heart is breaking for him and the family.  This path is often very trying on us. I know she is free and happy, but it is still hard. Why can't I see beyond my pain to what truly is?

A:  Child, no one dies, they just shift to a higher state. Their true form is an energy pattern  that is of one consciousness - our Creator. 

Q:  I have so many things with her I wish I had done different or better, and yet - there is all this stuff I seem to deal with. I wonder how she feels about her life path here? I wonder if she is loving or angry or sad?  There are so many questions I don't have answers to.

A:  At this time your long time friend is viewing her path. She is learning what each emotion was and how she dealt with it - the same as you will one day child. There are no regrets, sadness, or anger for her, only the realization this path was only for learning.

Q:  Yet, I deal with the thoughts of all my failures.  Was I there for her enough?  Was I a good friend?  Could I have done more?  There are so many things I would have done differently for and with her. She was always there for me and I am not sure I was for her. That is what hurts me the most - my failure to be a better friend to her.

A:  Child, what is in the past must stay in the past.. One here learns very well by the mistakes they make or the things they could have done better for those they love.  Do not regret but learn from this and allow spirit to guide you into all truths. do not seek the past but live in your present time frame. Do not look to the future as you will only worry. Living in the now is having peace that all is well with you.

Q:  Well Samson, not all is well with me.  I am grieving inside.  I can't seem to come to grips with my loss.  She was my only friend. She was always there for me. She let me ramble on and on and never complained. did I truly listen to her?  Did I be there for her?  These things hurt me, for I now I wasn't.  This breaks my heart.

A:  Child - live in the now.

Loosing Someone You Love

Q:  Why is it so hard to see someone you love pass away. I know they are connected to the one source and are only truly leaving to become who and what they are, but my ego here cries from the hurt. why?

A:  The human pathway on this dimension, child is very real to you. You see everything as if it is real. Yet, this pathway is only a place of learning and will pass away.

Q:  But, Samson, it appears so real to my heart.

A:  No one ever truly dies child, they only return to their true form. This form was created to pass away. Don't feel such a deep loss, you are still together and always will be.

Thank You For Your Knowledge To Help Me See Truth

Q:  I haven't written in my blog for a while. So much is going on in my life. We have moved, my boss moved so I have really been tied down to this path. The knowledge all of you have imparted to me is beginning to come to life. I am starting to see the oneness in a greater way. I by no means have reach any utopia, but I am walking towards truth with a little more understanding within. It feels so good to realize I am one with everything.

A:  Yes child, it is good. We see the growth happening within you and are glad. Love is beginning to teach you who and what you are - one with the Creator.

Q:  It sure has taken a long time for me.  I guess I was really ingrained in what I thought was truth.

A:  Many Souls are child. That is the reason for your writings.

Q: It is beyond my understanding at this point in time. My journals sit in boxes. So, stating my writings are for everyone doesn't make since right now to me, but I am not going to worry about it anymore. If they never get written that's okay. The writings have helped me to understand so much and I appreciate all of the  knowledge all of you have given to me. Thank you!