Desires

Q:  While we journey here on this 3rd dimension, our Ego in the ruling position, how can our emotions win against the demands of this place?  Seems like every way I go - my emotions gets the raw end of the deal.

A;  Each path journeyed here is to teach you about yourself, love and the highest of energies - Source. The Ego here is demanding and likes to control the emotions.  The Soul, the Ego, and the emotions are three different energies within you.  Whichever one you feed (doing as it asks) gets to be the stronger. One's emotions are lead by the energy that is the strongest.  It will abide by the demands of that entity.  If for instance - the Soul were to be in the leading roll for the day - one's emotions would be ruled by love, joy, peace, long suffering and so on.....If the Ego were to have the reins for the day - the emotions would feel every negative vibe put forth by the path it was trodding. If it was a sad day - the emotions would be quickly depleted.  If it was a happy day - the emotions would be able to sail through the day without feeling drained. If you choose to allow your Ego to rule - it isn't wrong - it will be a harder day to adjust one's emotions - that is all.

Q:  Why do we have to go through all of this good one day and hard the next.  Why couldn't the life path here just run at a steady rate? Sometimes I think I am riding a roller coaster all of the time.

A:  Yes, I am afraid here it will at times feel like that.  I know your heart hurts because of the hard path you have been trodding.  You worry about your children and your family.  You worry about your friends too.  Their path is theirs.  You can not walk every one's path for them - even though you try in your emotions.  One simply can not change any one's path unless - they choose to do so.  You want to win the lottery so to help those you love.  You simply can not help everyone - even though your heart longs too.  It isn't your path to walk.  It is theirs, Luv. 

Q:  I don't plan on running their path, I just want to help them be able to reach their dreams or to rest.  Is that so wrong?

A:  Your heart is so big, Luv, and your desires are to help so many.  I wish I could give you that - but that decision is up to your Soul and Ego.  At this point they are undecided as to your path.  Your  emotions are tired and long to rest.  That is coming soon,

Q:  Am I going to leave then?  For as far as I can see there will be no rest for this weary one.

A:  You see at this point what your Ego sees.  Look within and see as your Soul does.  Things pass away but love never does.

Q:  Are you trying to tell me that to be spiritual one has to be sad and poor - having no things as you put it?

A:  No, one can be very spiritual and be very rich - if  money and things matter little to them?  But it is very hard to be that way. For things and money seem to creep into one's heart.  It gives one a sense of control and that one my dear is the hard one to lay down once it has a hold. The Ego loves to be in control.  It feels superior and never wants anyone or anything to be beside it or above it.  It is your worse enemy if it has complete control. 
Take a serial killer - their Ego is in complete control and it leads the emotions. So whatever the loves are within that soul - is what it does.  Control of another is why they feel so powerful.  It is a rush to the Ego and controlling one is what is hard to let go off.
Take a person that has been abused.  When they remove themselves from the abuser - they try to take control of every aspect of their lives - letting no one in to share control - which is balance.  Balance is needed in every one's life, without it there is chaos.....

Q: How do I balance my Ego and Soul then?  You speak of meditation but surely there is other ways.

A:  Loving others, sharing with others and giving of oneself.  That is a hard one for you.  Allowing others in - letting them be close.  It is something you need to allow more.

Q:   Not into that right now.  I've had enough sadness already.

A:  One has to allow one's heart to be vulnerable to others to learn how to love.  Open up and see. It really will do you some good.

Q:  Ha,Ha, George - you are asking me to allow others to get into my deepest part?  That's funny, George....

A:  Try it, Luv, and see.  Yes, some will hurt you , some will disappoint you, but you will learn more about yourself and others that way.  This path is all about the learning.  You can only grow if you become vulnerable.

Q:  I'll think about it, but I make no promises at this time......

A:  That's all I can hope for, Luv.

ORBS

Q:  George, what are Orbs? 

A:  What are Orbs, let's see - they are energies.

Q:  What of?

A:  Many times Orbs seem to follow energies of like mind.  They will seek out energies that are of the same electrical volume as they are.  They will stay around a Soul until such time they are recognized or asked to leave.  Remember - nothing can ever override your FREE WILL.   Many times an Orb is an energy that is looking for its place in every dimension.  It hangs around those that hold on to the same types of loves.

A:  Guess that's why I have never had a photo taken of me that one appeared into.  Lol.....

Q:  They do not always appear to people here.  Often they just tag along with one's energy.  They are mostly harmless, but a few do have an angry energy.  Usually it is due to a hard life on this dimension - one they are unable to let go of for some reason. Their energy is lowered and often they will appear very dim.  This is due to the energy running at a slower rate than the spirits of others who have yet to leave this dimension.

A:  Why do Souls stay in this type of LIMBO?  I can't wait to go home.

Q:  Their loves hold them here.  Even you have loves that hold you here.  Your children, your husband and friends.  Every Soul does.  It is the way of the Ego's mind here upon the 3rd dimension consisting of slower energy. One is often held by their loves or unfulfilled desires. 

A:  Why would anything other than one's family and friends  - hold one here?

Q:  It depends on what one's heart is attached too.  It can be anything.  What one is attached too comes from within and has also something to do with all of the life paths one has trod.  It accumulates within the self and it can have a tremendous hold on one.

Q:  How does that Soul release itself then?

A:  Once the Soul finally discovers that the love they have held on to - brings no happiness - it will let it go and the Soul will move forward.  It can be a short process or a very long process.  It all depends on how soon the Soul learns the longing is for naught.

Q:  Am I going to be one of those hang around souls?

A:  Not if you let go of all things upon leaving.......

Q:  How do I do that?

A:  By realizing all things here are not really real - that the real world is a world of energies basking in united love.

What about the Chakras

Q;  My friend, Paul, was talking about the 7 Chakras.  I could understand some of what he discussed, but having never study about these I am afraid I don't quite see what they are.  Are they important to me?

A:  The seven Chakras are basically the same as all enlightenment.  They are the key to your ability to understand and balance yourself. The Chakras are the seven points of one's life that controls certain areas of your physical being.  If one is in balance with their energy - one will be at peace within and without.  If one is out of balance then one will struggle with various areas of one's life path.  Lets talk about one's will area which is around the stomach area. If one is strong willed - that can be good - if one allows that strength to remain in a healthy way.  If the person becomes out of balance then their will can become quite stubborn and dominating.  Then it is not so easy on that soul or those around them. Makes for some bad days - speaking in your types of good and bad.  Of course there is no good or bad - only lessons.Those lessons in one's life path can be easy to learn or hard to learn.  It is up to each soul's choosing of course.

Q:  So how do I balance my Chakras?

A:  Through meditation.  I have spoken of this often.  It is the only way a soul can balance their energy here.  For when one is meditating - the Ego is no longer in control and once it is not in control it views its counterpart - the soul - and merges.   The love that radiates from the merged energies is very powerful.  It heals and cleanses one. It is refreshing to the emotions - which by the way - often here takes a heavy beating.  The emotions can once again be balanced.  It is good for all of the energies to be balanced.

Q:  You talk as if they are three different energies.

A:  They are in one way and not in others.  Each has their work to do here - but it is not always so easily accomplished.  It takes much meditation here to join them in balance.

Q:  Guess I really need to learn to meditate - huh?

A:  That would be wise, Luv. 

The Word Choose Really Annoys Me

Q:  You tell me all the time, George, to, "CHOOSE," my path, or my decision, or my wants.  But, what you don't tell me is, "HOW TO DO IT." Its easy for you to say, "Choose, " but it is not so easy on this dimension to choose anything.  It seems as if the Soul and Ego war daily with our emotions.  I think sometimes - our emotions - gets the raw end of the deal.  It is not easy to understand what Choosing really means for one.

A:  The Soul and the Ego when merged have the same desires, but when the person comes here and their Ego is veiled from its counterpart the Soul - yes - it is often very difficult for the person to truly understand how to choose their path. It isn't easy to merge the two - to achieve the path desired by one's emotions.  The Ego wants to be in control all of the time.  It's desire is to maintain a life path of its choosing where it is king.  If the emotions wins - the Ego has to back down.  It is a battle to win here.

Q:  When does the emotions get to have its desires?

A:  When the Soul overrides the ego and allows it.

Q:  Well, as far as I am concerned my Ego is too darn powerful to ever give up control.  I just want some peace and rest from all these struggles I am bombarded with.

A:  Even when a Soul is bombarded with sadness, anger, greed, selfishness or whatever desire one has - there can be unity and peace within it.  One has to recognize what is happening within the Ego and the emotions and rest in it.  When our emotions rest against the desired demand of the Ego - it finds it is less dismayed. Peace can be in any situation - if one allows the Soul to come forward and merge with its Ego and bring peace to them.

Q:  Easier said than done, George.

A:  It is as YOU choose to believe, Luv.  If you believe it is impossible for you - than it shall be as you think.  The mind is extremely powerful.  It can make or break any situation.  When you come to that realization within you - you will see - thoughts create your path. 

Q:  Okay - if my thoughts create my path - why have I not received what I have thought and spoken?

A:  You have not spoken from your heart - only your emotions.

Q:  How do I speak it from my heart?

A:  Go within and seek it from Source - who is within you and is you.  You are one.

Q:  I thought I had.

A:  You think it - but doubt it in your heart.  Think about it - when ever you have spoken your desires you have said within your thoughts - it probably won't happen for me - have you not?

Q:  Yeah - guess I am too use to the path being negative......

A:  Then choose to change it for yourself.....Its up to each Soul  - to achieve their desired path.  No one can choose it for one.  The path is yours to create......

Tell Me........

Q:  I want you to tell me something. Something that will help me at this time.

A:  All I can do is to aid you in your path.  The path must be one of your choosing. You ask how -  how can I really change my path.  You change it by changing your heart.  To change ones heart one must merge the Ego and the Soul and allow them to change it to their liking.

Q:  Yeah - but their desires may not be what - me - the emotions wants.  So how can one get all three to agree?

A: By accepting that all happenings will lead you forward in your quest to discover what love truly is.  This is not a path to have it soft, but a path to teach you and strengthen you.  Sometimes things have to get tough to do that.

Q:  Well it is time I got some down time - a little TLC.  Of course what I think of as TLC probably isn't what you think it is. Right?

A: Quite the contrary Luv, I couldn't agree more with you. But what you are going through is what you chose.

Q:  I can't imagine choosing the current path I travel.  I am in a job I hate, broke, have no home and have a husband that suffers physically. My children are all in jobs they hate and barely scraping by.  I want them to have their dreams.  I can't have mine now, so I at least want them too.

A:  You shall have your desires.  The timing is up to you and your choosing it.....You have to choose it.....