The Perfect Person For Me

Q: Boy - we all think we need to find the perfect person for us. Is there such a thing, George as that? A: If one is looking for the perfect person for them - from the vantage point of the Ego and it's emotion - then there is no such thing. For everyone we think of as perfect for us will eventually let our Ego's preconceived ideas down. The Ego has an unattainable view of what is perfect. If one is looking from within (to the true nature of love) then - yes - there is that perfect person for one. Love's view of what it needs may not be what the Ego thinks - most times - it is just the opposite. You often ask for things and use the term, "MY GOOD, not yours." You say this because your Ego desires things its way - not what is truly good for your spirit and its growth. That is okay - but even you see the difference. Love will always go with the choice that expands one's spirit. The Ego will always choose what gratifies its flesh or emotions. Neither is right or wrong - both ways of choice will teach. One way may end up harder in the beginning but greater in the end. The other may seem easy at first but end up a very hard teaching lesson. Each will end up expanding one's knowing of what to love means. That is very good. Q: Why do we always seem to reach for what the Ego thinks of as good for us? Why is it so difficult for us to reach for what the Soul desires? A: Neither way is easy. Both are hard teachers. But if one truly desires to learn what, "to love," truly means then one has to travel down their road of choice. Which one we choose will teach us what our heart wants to learn. Often what we think is our heart's true desire - really isn't. Our Ego and its desires often confuse what love really means. Emotions cloud one's thoughts and desires and makes them seem stronger and more to our liking, but in the end we will finally discover what was right for us. When one thinks they have found our true path - often later on - one discovers it didn't end up fulfilling us as we thought it would. Seeking in other ways what one thinks they don't have - will often end up showing us that the thing we had is what fulfilled us and was the best teacher for us. Emotional desires or what one calls love - is often one seeking without what one is missing within. Those needs one feels a longing for are only quinched by discovering the truth of love within the Soul. For only the merging of the Soul and the Ego can truly show one what love is. Q: So millions of people are out there seeking what they think is love in someone only to be let down. So, is there no real love to be found in relationships here? Is it to be only Spiritual? A: There are many relationships to be had here on this dimension if ones seeks it from within the Soul. But it will not in any way resemble what the Ego thinks is love. True love is allowing each other to be who and what they are without any strings - or as I like to say without any preconceived ideas or any expectations. That is true love between two Souls. It can be obtained here if one chooses it. Q: Okay - how do we merge with another person here without having any ideas of how we would like our relationship to be? A: Seek the relationship from within - not without. By that I mean - seek from the Soul who is free - not from the Ego that is bound. Freely given - will freely be.