Q: After talking with different people I am starting to see that, "Fear of Rejection," seems to be the Ego's greatest fear. Is that why we often hurt others in our quest to pacify our Ego's feelings here?
A: Often many will, "Straddle the fence," in order to keep from having to confront themselves and others as to how they really feel. The Ego is very powerful here and will often keep one hiding to the real truth within one. Let's take for example - how many will straddle the spiritual fence because the fear of loosing what or who they love is beyond them. It is often very hard to come out of the closet and be who you are, especially when it comes to religion. Religion tends to hold onto one in a very powerful way. One begins to seek truth, begins to see bits and pieces of it, shares it and all hell breaks loose. Most step back into the mold for peace's sake.
Q: But, if I continue to hold back, straddle the fence, how will I ever truly see what truth is within me? Seems like I would be divided. How can one grow if one holds onto any boxes within us - boxes that seem to us to be the act of love? For love for others often holds us back from becoming and being what we see and are. Fear of rejection is a bitter pill to swallow for us.
A: If it is true love - then it will accept what you are. If it is love wrapped up in dogma or preconceived ideas - then it is not love - but control.
Q: So how do I grow beyond control?
A: Seek and you shall find, knock and it shall be opened. If you truly seek truth beyond all other things or people - then that is what you will go after. For one can not hold truth within them and hold boxes too. Neither will grow. One has to be free of all control and dogma. Often we hurt those we truly love in order to remain on the fence. Truth is simple - it is love and it is free.
Q: Okay - if I love my brother and he dwells in one area of truth - how do I simply forsake my love for him and seek enlightenment beyond him?
A: By what you choose. If you desire the relationship above the truth - then that is what you will reap. If you desire truth beyond him - then that is what you will reap. The choice is up to each Soul. But, love has to be real and remain free or the light of truth will dim. What do you choose Luv? Relationships or truth? Only you can answer that question.
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